* "Ten taboos to happiness " for the intelligent aged persons*
*一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。*
*Don't be concerned about adult children any more,otherwise, cannot
stop the annoying chatters.*
*二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。*
*Don't regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a
guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.*
*三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。*
*No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the
right of decision-making of adult children.*
*四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。*
*Don't regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look
for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of
anxious expectation and disappointment daily.*
*五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌**,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。*
*Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime
your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across.
*
*六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。*
*More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people
have Done for pleasing you.*
*七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。*
*Don't involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult
children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your
grandchildren. *
*八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。*
*Don't cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and ta ke the
necessary medicalpills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.*
*九、不要疑心病太重,要感激還願意留在你身邊的人,免得最後連他也走了!*
* Don't be s ke ptical to others too much, be grateful to the person
who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually.*
*十、要多多培養宗教情操,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。*
*Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and ta
ke pleasant,optimistic attitudes toward the future.*
如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。
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